Ray Lester

Here is Ray Irvin Lester or Irvin Ray Lester a truck driver.


  He is a 71 year old man that has spend half his life chasing women telling them they are the love of  his life then one day disappears.   I mean he says nothing..packs his bag when you are not there and leaves.   His MO is to not say a word.  He makes plans with you for your lifetime..says you are the love of his life... his one and only that he wants forever and ever.  Then gone..POOF..gone without not looking back or saying why or that he needs to move on.  This man is so low that he even leaves your belongs at his son's apartment without even telling him he is leaving.  You go over to see what is wrong after days of no word or not answering the phone or texts thinking he is dead.  Your things are by the door in a crate.  No hammer needs to hit me on what that means...to be this chicken to make your son do the dirty work of telling your friend it is done and you are gone is one of the lowest of low for anybody.  He has done this many times. 
After a lot of searching on the internet and talking to people that knew him over 20 years ago this has been going on forever

.  He calls it an attitude adjustment.  I call it too chicken to face reality.  I would not get a second mortgage on my house to finance his  being a snowbird.  He asked me over 3 times. 


He was working some this spring and summer so able to purchase a car.   The middle of July he said he was too old for this shit of working .  The payment and insurance on the car is over 500 a month.  His income is 1100 for SS . You can see where this is going.  He has to get a woman to support him.  After she does for a while the pattern of his life is set.  POOF again.  He has nothing.  No pension.  No property.  No furniture (opps does have small TV, gps and computer)  No investment.  No possessions worth anything but the bill on the car that he put 500 down and owes the rest. 

He frequents the Elks Lodge, Eagle Lodge and Moose Lodge looking for women with money.   I traced him to Goodyear Arizona on a singles site Plenty of Fish so I know he is in Arizona for now.  Professes to have danced on American Bandstand when in the Navy.  Wants to do old rock and roll all the time.  Great gift for gab and good story teller.   some of his addresses are . 

Custer, SD

Salem, OR

Beaverton, OR

Silverton, OR

Las Vegas, NV

Portland, OR

Sioux City, IA

Gervais, OR

Charlotte, NC

Hillsboro, OR

Klamath Falls, OR

Winston Salem, NC

Vancouver, WA

Mount Angel, OR

I know there are more like lake Havasu Arizona that he will not go back to for think he did same thing there.  He does not want a lady to have any problems with health etc.  He will leave fast if you do. 

Beware ladies...he pulls off a good one but you will pay the bill to have a few dances and made to think you are the one and only. Enjoy the ride in the car for that is a short trip unless you pick up the payment.